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Enrollment OPEN November 3-9, 2025
- Enrollment OPEN November 3-9, 2025
How To Leave
A Courage + Strategy Program for Women
A 7-week courage + strategy program for women who know that staying is no longer true — who are ready to step forward onto the path of sovereignty and freedom.
Reach the place of inner certainty through clarity, confidence, and peace.
How to Leave (HTL) is a 7 week program designed to be your intimate companion and guide - from the fear‑fog to freedom.
Does this sound like you?
All I ever wanted was to fall in love and live happily ever after. I don’t know why I am here again feeling unloved, unseen, unfulfilled.
I feel so misunderstood and unmet in my relationship.
I sometimes feel guilty for wanting more, but I also know I can’t keep living like this.
I know if I stay, I will never experience the deepest desire of my heart: to fall in love with the love of my life and to have the total union that lasts a lifetime.
Deep down, I know something isn’t right, but I keep second-guessing myself or talking myself out of what I know.
I’ve tried everything - constantly adjusting, talking things through, compromising, staying quiet, praying - but the quality love real love I know should be there still isn’t. The ache of its absence doesn’t go away.
I’m afraid of what leaving might mean - financially, emotionally, socially.
I worry about being alone or starting over, but staying feels like I’ve already lost myself.
I know I want to leave with clarity and confidence in my decision, not out of panic, reaction, or hurt - even though I am hurt.
I used to think leaving was wrong. I really wanted a love that lasted, but my heart is telling me this isn’t it.
I need practical steps, emotional support, and a path forward that actually makes sense - one I can feel safe taking.
I’m ready to stop being held back in fear. I am ready to step into the woman I desire to be - even though I still feel afraid.
Whether you feel called to leave, are still questioning, or already know you’re done, but are struggling to find the courage and need support for the next steps -
The HTL Program is your loving, hand-holding guide to clarity, strength, hope, and ultimately to freedom.
What does freedom mean to you?
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Imagine waking up each morning with joy, peace, excitement, and purpose, knowing that you are creating the life of your dreams. Imagine the sense of fulfillment and satisfaction you’d feel living from your truth, from your authentic wholehearted desires and taking inspired actions towards your goals and dreams.
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See yourself living radiant, authentically powerful, fulfilled, loved and seen. Imagine how good it feels to finally be living in your true heart’s desires - living as the woman you truly are: supported, capable, joyful, and wonder-filled. How good would it feel to look back on this moment as the moment that changed everything?
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What if you knew you were not alone, that you were supported, that you would make it, that you would have the love + life you dream of?
Imagine: You are living right smack dab in the middle of your dream life,as the Woman of your Dreams… You freed yourself from the prison of fear and self-doubt, stepped into your power, purpose and vision - took ownership of your life, your love story, your finances, and your future.
Think of this program as a metamorphosis from
fear + self-doubt to COURAGE + RADIANCE.
In just 7 weeks, you will feel a deep and profound shift in your personal knowing, in your trust in that knowing - both in your intuition and in Life (God). You will feel your confidence and stability returning as the fear-fog clears. You will feel your courage rising as you see the life you desire is truly possible and actually haveable.
What You’ll Get
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Intro Session
Full length introduction to the framework of the HTL Program PLUS a session in itself on the following: What is actually keeping you stuck? What does it really take to leave? And, how good life can truly become when you back your own truth.
($97 market value)
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6 Lessons
Six full length audios designed to build upon each other and lay the foundations of stability, security, and ever deepening courage, confidence and trust in your internal guidance system. Together, we separate truth from lies so that you can see clearly, navigate successfully, and walk proudly each step of the way.
($1297 market value)
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4 Bonus Meditations
Four Bonus Meditations to comfort, encourage, calm, ground, inspire and invite you to explore the possibilities as you begin to allow yourself to dream again, to listen deeply to your own heart, and to come into the safety of being held by the ever-present, everlasting arms of TRUTH+LOVE.
($197 market value)
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Guided Inner Work
Each lesson comes with specific assignments and journal prompts to take you deeper into you. The answers to your questions come from aligning with your deepest and highest truths, and these assignments are designed to facilitate the clarification you seek.
($497 market value)
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Private Community
HTL Members Only Private Community: bonus insider content, Q/A, group channels, exclusive lives, community celebration + encouragement, and special offers.
($1,997 market value)
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Clarity, Courage, and Confidence
In just 7 weeks, you will feel a deep and profound shift in your personal knowing, in your trust in that knowing - both in your intuition and in Life (God). You will feel your confidence and stability returning as the fear-fog clears. You will feel your courage rising as you see the life you desire is truly possible and actually haveable.
(priceless)
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Bonus 30 Minute 1:1 Call
This BONUS is my gift to you for finishing The HTL Program! This call is for YOU - so ask any questions you have or specific areas you would like coaching - I'm beyond thrilled to support you.
($297 Market Value)
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Exclusive Pricing
Special discount rates for one on one coaching packages, good for up to one year after your HTL Program purchase. There is incredible, irreplaceable value to having support in a process of change like this, and I am deeply grateful to have the opportunity to stand with and for you on your growth journey.
($1,297 market value)
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Program Value
Total Market Value = $4,382
Program Price = $1,497
Soft Launch Price = $997
The Lessons
Each lesson builds upon the last, moving you step-by-step from the mind-numbing fear-fog into radiant clarity.
The Introduction:
This call sets the framework for the How To Leave Program, where I introduce the six upcoming sessions and give you a bonus sneak peek at the following:
What is actually keeping you stuck?
What does it really take to leave?
The most common reasons women stay against their own knowing.
How good life can truly become when you leap.
What you can expect next and throughout the program
Lesson 1: Leaving the Knot
The first step to leaving, and the only first step that works to leave the cycle for good. “Guaranteed!” Well, I can’t actually guarantee that you will see this through. Only you can determine what you’ll ultimately choose. After all, you are free to return to your misery, but don’t. Please don’t do that!
If you don’t do this (as in: the other really important thing you should know), you will fall back into the relationship, back into the same unfulfilling and unhealthy dynamic, recreate that crazy mess with another person, or shrink your life down to merely surviving. (Picture hanging on for dear life…Okay, now stop because that is NOT a pretty picture.)
The only way to actually break free from the cycle.
What leaving the relationship is actually about for you.
The NOT you. Together we’ll meet the person you became. We will honor her path and bid her adieu.
Lesson 2: Truth Be Told…
The first and most important step to move from disempowered/powerless to empowered/powerful
Uncovering the secret agendas at play - those sneaky, covert patterns underpinning everything and holding you stuck like the superglue of the universe!
Getting crystal clear on the lies you’ve bought that have you confused, stuck and uncertain about what really makes you happy
What happens when we betray ourselves?
Seeing our own blind spots, so we can actually tell ourselves the truth (because what is true sets us free)
What makes us usable and abusable, and how to powerfully shift this dynamic
Lesson 3: Thinking Unstuck
How our thinking sticks us and keeps us stuck. And, how to change our thinking so we can change our life
Why having our own back is vital to being happy and free. And, how to actually back yourself with Grace and Grit
Strategizing with God to find the BEST way for you! And, dealing with the opinions (cough! judgments) of others
Why sticky thinking keeps us in the loop of suffering
3 ways to get unstuck in our thinking
How to actually shift from compromising your joy and aliveness to living it freely and fully
How to stop negotiating for the status quo (ie. less than your heart desires)
Lesson 4: Life Support 101
Ask and Receive - how to actually do it.
God = Provision; that means God is PRO your vision. Pro you!
Think: Life actually, really loves me, and I live in kind, caring and compassionate Universe. (Did you just describe yourself?!)
If leaving was easy you would have done it a long time ago, right? I know it has felt so hard! So let me show you how to make this look easy BE ease.
Lesson 5: Firm Foundations
Practical Resources and Planning: Baby steps count! (And, it’s okay to cry like a baby)
How to choose what actually works for you
Courage = the new confidence
Self-esteem boosting is better than botox (and botox helps 😉)
Is Self-Respect the new self-love?
How to bounce back fast from a slip into the old not-you (Who dat?!)
Lesson 6: Falling In Love Again…
Regardless of where you’re at with falling in love, relationally speaking - you DO desire to fall in love with life, with YOUR life, with the woman you get to be, the vision of your future and with your day-to-day experience of living…
Surviving is not the dream life, babe. I know the past has hurt and that digging deep to look at your truest desires and opening up BIG can feel anywhere from exciting to terrifying. Let’s go there together.
How to open and dream again (and why this is absolutely vital for you to ooze your gorgeousness).
How to glisten like a radiant goddess and BE the incredible, beautiful, magnificent, divine woman you are in your highest truth.
And, of course, how to fall in love without losing your mind, your focus, your clarity, your stability, and everything you worked so hard for (remember, think: ease)…
In her words…
“I did it. I took baby steps, even when terrified. HTL gave me the clarity to keep going and not return.”
“I was afraid of the unknown, but HTL unbundled the feeling of overwhelm into doable steps. ”
“I told myself staying was better for the children, but now I’m giving them the gift of having a whole, authentically happy and capable mother.”
“I felt trapped in fear and second-guessing. Now I hear my inner guidance — and trust it.”
“I didn’t just leave, I reclaimed myself.
I have never felt so safe, supported, and free.”
Common Concerns
What if I am afraid to leave?
You are not alone in feeling that. Every woman who has wanted to change the course of her life has felt fear. The truth is, the fear is already there even if you don’t leave. It just doesn’t get agitated until the light of your true desires starts to shine on its ugly, relentless grip.
The GOOD NEWS is that you don’t have to leave until you are ready. This program has the power to move you from confusion, self-doubt and frozen fear to clarity, courage and confidence in just 7 weeks. In fact, you will even notice changes after the first lesson! But, if you want to take it slowly, you can begin to immerse yourself in the beauty of the inner transformation now. Whether you leave now, later or never (some women rediscover their first love for their partner as a result of a deep dive into inner healing), you can begin the gentle journey into your heart - into your truth, your desires, your hurts, and the lies that have kept you from truly living.
You can start with even a baby step towards feeling safer, stronger, and clearer - and with that, more peace in your body, heart, and mind.
What if I don’t think I can do it?
Every woman who has struggled with the idea of leaving an undesirable dynamic has had to face self-doubt. And self-doubt is a powerful tool used against yourself, to stop you from stepping toward your desires. The old internal self-preservation system is simply trying to keep you safe. What you know, you can predict, control or navigate. What you don’t know, requires new adaptations, skills, and growth.
You can take baby steps towards your desires. Every little step counts - even if they are only internal shifts to begin with. You never have to push yourself beyond what you are truly ready for, and when you’re ready for more - you will have developed a trust and a confidence in your own inner guidance system to know what to do and when to do it. And, as a reminder, you are not alone.
Help and support ARE available for you.
What if the unknown feels overwhelming?
Overwhelming is a word we use to describe a cocktail of feelings that arises in our bodies with certain sets of incoming data. When we break the data down into smaller, more manageable pieces, we can begin to dismantle the BIG BAD feeling of overwhelm. I know it can activate a paralyzing/can’t do this sensation inside and out, and I also know there is a way through the freeze, the panic, the collapse.
The HTL Program is a gentle introduction into the possibilities that you have available. Even listening to the program sessions can begin to dismantle the psychological and physiological prison of overwhelm, anxiety, fear, and intimidation.
You truly can grow deep roots of courage, confidence and consistency - embodied truth in action, and together, we can lay the solid foundation upon which you can build the life you desire.
Together, we can anchor your heart, mind, and body in safety, stability, and unbreakable faith.
What if I fail?
Failure is often on par with public rejection and humiliation. In a world of propped up social statuses, failure can even seem unbearable. In the HTL Program, we look at the idea of failure from different perspectives to discover what each individual truly believes about such opportunities of learning and growth, rather than a belief that failure is a reflection of one’s worth or value or capability. It’s not the failure itself that feels most devastating, but all the meaning and conclusions we have attached to the idea of failing.
True failure is to stop living forward. True failure is to stop living.
Anything shy of that, is progress.
What if I _____?
What if I _____?
In the How To Leave Program, we will go into all your what ifs until you reach the place of inner knowing, clarity, confidence and peace.
What ifs are there for a reason. Your unique inner ask is not invalidated here. Your voice of inquiry is encouraged forward so we can look at the real ask behind the what ifs from all sides. The HTL Program is fundamentally rooted in establishing trust in your inner guidance system AND in clarifying the origin of the thoughts you are having in order to move you without resistance from fear to faith (knowing, trust, confidence, assurance). We can honor our inner inquiry and we don’t have to let the what ifs create a circular wall around us either.
“Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear." - George Addair
Hi, I’m Colette
Lead Program Director + Master Coach
I know the superhuman courage it takes to leave. I know the commitment to yourself required to see this through. And I know—from living it—that miracles really do happen when you choose to love + back yourself in this way.
Now, I have the deepest honor of supporting women like you through this profound reclamation. Having been to the abyss of my own self-made hell and back, I know how to be with you as you confront your deepest fears and take the steps toward your most vibrant, satisfying life.
I know what it's like to feel completely alone—terrified, yet knowing deep down you have to leave.
For over 25 years, I walked (and stumbled, and restarted) the winding path of leaving relationships where I'd hidden myself, pretended it was what I wanted, desperately tried to fix what they said was “wrong” with me, and ultimately, I lived a lie. Until…I couldn’t anymore.
I did the hard work when I was scared.
I did it when I felt I had nothing and no one.
I'll never forget standing in the kitchen, wishing for a Soul Mama-Mentor- Midwife who could show me the way—someone to hold my hand, remind me I could do this, and witness me become the woman I knew I was meant to be.
I didn't have that. In that moment I felt my life changing, I felt you. I knew there were women like you, like me - wishing for support, for help.
I didn’t have it then, but I knew I had to create it—for you.
Through my own heroine's journey, I transformed deep wounds into deep wisdom. I learned that to be truly, madly, deeply loved, I had to become Her: The Radiantly Loved Woman. This required me to:
Unlearn embodied trauma and self-preservation patterns
Reclaim my truth, voice, and authentic power
Unveil myself in vulnerable honesty, untwisting from shame
Acknowledge my heart's deepest desires and honor them with my life
You were born to be wildly Radiant, ridiculously Loved + confidently Free.
It would be my honor to support you.
What if you could give yourself the gift of freedom?
Beautiful, do you -
Feel the deep soul calling to leave—the kind that won’t quiet down, no matter how much you try to ignore it
Are you at the point of no return? Where your soul is leading you and you can’t hold back anymore?
Know you can no longer live a lie
Are you ready to finally live in truth, and in its power as the fullness of who you are?
Know staying means you are betraying yourself, shrinking, and living a life that isn’t truly yours
Are you ready to live the truth, no matter what it costs?
Recognize that this relationship has been a place of hiding and avoiding owning your life and stepping into your truest expression
Are you ready to take full responsibility to create and live your most authentic life?
Feel ready to stop hiding, waiting and making excuses for why you can’t step into your power
Are you ready to see who you are when you unveil your true self?
Feel ready to emerge fully, to be seen, to take up space, and to reclaim the parts of yourself you abandoned or cut off
Are you ready to experience your BEST life - the life of your dreams? Are you ready to become the woman of your dreams, whose dreams really do come true?
Join the HTL soft launch
Introductory Price
This soft launch price of $997
is the lowest it will ever be.
The enrollment window
closes November 9, 2025.
Privacy‑conscious billing
payment charge shows as EWF.
Take the first step and start building the courage and confidence you need to create the life + relationship you truly long for. The life you desire begins with embracing the courage to live your honest truth, God-given power and true beauty.
Radiant, Loved, Empowered, Sovereign, Seen.
What Happens When You Join?
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Complete Your Secure Checkout
To protect your privacy, charge appears as EWF on your billing statement.
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Receive Your Welcome Session + Program Details
Receive instant access to your intro session + an invite to our private community.
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Join a sisterhood of courageous women choosing to live - radiant, loved and seen.
This program isn’t just about leaving, it’s about LIVING your highest and happiest life. The best is yet to come (if you choose it). Get ready to rewrite the story of you. We are here to support, guide and celebrate you every step of the way. We’re truly stronger together.
“It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new. But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful."
- Alan Cohen
THE TRUTH IS:
You were literally born to be a Radiant, In Love Woman.
FAQs
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The audio sessions, meditations and guided assignments are yours to keep. You will receive access instructions after purchasing the program and the one-time purchase fee gives you lifetime access to the audio and pdf files. If we ever change the hosting platform for HTL, you will be notified and any new access instructions will be provided.
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Starting now - when you're not ready - is ideal. This allows you to gently immerse yourself in the beauty, wisdom, support, inner guidance assignments and practical tools without any additional pressure.
Whether you leave now, later or never (some women rediscover their first love for their partner as a result of a deep dive into inner healing), you can begin the gentle journey into your heart - into your truth, your desires, yes, even your hurts, and the lies that have kept you from truly living.
Even a baby step - towards feeling safer, stronger, and clearer - allows for more peace in your body, heart and mind.
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Join the HTL Private Community! Get full access to the private channels for bonus content, Q/A, sister support and more!
Private coaching with Colette is an option at anytime throughout your HTL journey.
As an added bonus, HTL members get exclusive discount pricing on 1:1 coaching packages for up to a year from your date of purchase.
You are not alone. Help and support are here when you need them.
For technical support, email support@everywomanfree.com
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The HTL Private Community includes: Bonus HTL Content, Surprise Lives, a place to submit Questions, Group Chat Channel, Community Support + Celebration, Introductions and Announcements, as well as DM options. Colette will be in the community to offer further insight and support as well as the EWF Team.
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Yes! There is an continued LIVE group coaching option for those in the program or who've completed the HTL Program, as well as private coaching for your unique path and process to becoming the woman of your dreams.
Additional programs will also be added to support you on your journey, and you’ll be first to hear when they are live.
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I love this question, especially because it makes me giggle. You and I both know (that almost no one actually asks this question) and that the results come from the work each individual puts into their own inner work and outer externalized actions.
This program is designed wholeheartedly to support you in developing both your inner clarity and your action focused steps because for women like I was (and perhaps like you) these are the two weaker areas that keep us stuck in the cycle of settling for less than we desire and know is possible.
I love this program and show up fully because I am committed to my LIFE. It would be my honor to guide you, support you, and celebrate the results you create with the choices you make.
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In the HTL program and private community, we discuss mindsets that keep us stuck, the lies we tell ourselves that blind us to the path we desire to walk, the woman we desire to be and the live we desire to live. We look at our fears, our desires, our past pain, and our future longings.
We heal, we grow, we soften, we strengthen. We become more courageous, confident and consistent. We examine our choices, our thoughts, our feelings and our beliefs. We choose to chart out the qualities of the women we desire to be, and we look at how we can move toward becoming SHE.
I’ll tell you a little secret - HTL isn't as much about leaving something or someone, as it is about becoming the women of our dreams.
So if you are doubtful, you are in the perfect place to begin the journey of developing trust in you, and I would love to have you join so I can support and encourage you!
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The Weekly Live Q/A calls that come with the HTL Bundle are recorded calls, so you will have access to the replays.
Your 8 Live Call bundle starts the week of your HTL Program purchase and runs consecutively.
If you know you are going to miss a call in advance, you will have a designated private channel in the HTL Private Community (only available to those who signed up for Live Calls) where you can pre-submit questions for Colette to answer on the call so you can catch it on the replay.
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If you desire to leave your current relationship and you identify as a woman feeling called to do that - this program is for you.
Please be gracious with my broad use of woman/female/feminine/she/her, and find yourself completely held and welcome here.
The fine print.
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The How To Leave Program has a one-time fee of $697.
Payment plans are available for the HTL Program PLUS Private Community, the Bundle Option (which includes the HTL Program, Private Community and 8 Weekly Live Group Coaching Calls), and/or Private Coaching Session add-ons.
Payments must be up to date and in good standing to receive continued access.
Let's honor each other. If you miss a payment or need more time to catch up, please feel safe to let us know. Reach out to our team at: support@everywomanfree.com
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Please purchase this program only if you are confident in your desire to do so.
I wholeheartedly believe in the value of the HTL Program and have underpriced it specifically to make it more accessible. Since HTL is a digital product, I do not offer refunds.
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Your personal experience and story is held as sacred. Your data and personal details are kept private, as is any information you share in 1:1 private coaching sessions.
Please be aware - when you purchase the HTL program, you will need to create a profile in the hosting platform. This will require a name, however, other features of your profile are optional such as profile photo, etc. YOU ARE WELCOME TO USE AN ALIAS NAME OR IMAGE if you feel the need to do so.
Joining HTL acknowledges that you will take personal ownership of your privacy.
If you choose to join the full access HTL Private Community, please know that this community is only available for HTL members and is therefore an internal community. Please be aware - anything you share there (channels, chats, direct messages, etc.), you do so with the understanding that other HTL members will have access to view these, and you theirs.
For Live Calls, you may choose to use an alias name or image or remain off camera if you need extra privacy.
To preview the Full HTL Privacy Policy, HTL Community Code of Conduct and HTL Privacy Waiver please click here.
In keeping with an HTL commitment - let's honor each other and use our discretion.